Is she cheating on him ?

[Canada Bob]

Just got this from one of me mates... puts you in a right spot don't it, I hope I gave him the right advice  :024:

Hello Bob,

I've not confided in you before about this, but I really need your advice on what could be a crucial decision.

I've suspected for some time now that Mary has been cheating on me,  the usual signs, phone rings, I answer it, the caller hangs up.

She's been going out with the girls a lot recently, although when I ask their names she always says, "Just some friends from work, you don't know them."

I sometimes stay awake to look out if she's getting a taxi home, but she always comes walking up the drive as I hear the sound of a car leaving around the corner, as if she has gotten out and walked the rest of the way. Do you think it's somebody dropping her off ?

I picked up her mobile yesterday, just to see what time it was, this caused her to go completely berserk. She  snatched the phone out of my hand and cursed me hysterically, screaming that "I should never touch her personal property". She then accused me of trying to spy on her.

Anyway, I have never broached the subject with my wife. I think deep down, I just didn't want to know the truth, but last night she went out again and I decided to find out what's going on. I decided I was going to park my car next to the garage and then hide behind it so I could get a good view of the street around the corner when she came home.

It was freezing bloody cold but as I was crouching behind my motor that I noticed a small amount of oil leaking through the gasket underneath the cylinder head.

So... I really need to know, is this something I can repair myself, or do you think I should take it to the garage ?

Billy.

Dear Billy,

It seems to me that Mary has been getting serviced more than the car, I'd trade 'em both in.

Bob.