Well, firstly I'll just say thankyou to everybody who's had an opinion on this thread, some of it was stating the obvious, some of it was helpfull, but all was much appreciated :021:
I have come to a decision on whether to take this girl back or not, and after seriously considering all the pros and cons , I've decided its in my best interests if I don't take her back. While yes it would be fun to start with, I think all along i knew the same arguments would crop up again and again, there is a serious lack of trust and while I could go back to being friends with her, its not the base for any hope of a rekindled relationship and it wouldn't be fair on her or myself to try and what would end up forcing the trust back. It's not worth the hurt a 2nd time if she was to cheat again and while it may have been the easy option to go back, I am quite looking forward to moving on and finding someone new i can share experiences with and hopefully maybe one day settle down with and with a bit of luck somebody who would rather go to the football with me on a Saturday and then onto a night out together or night in together with a couple of DVDs rather than spending the weekend doing the total opposite of each other.
And for what its worth, If i had gone back - I personally don't think it would have lasted more than a month :014: