RIG - I think, If i did take her back, I would always have that niggling feeling going on where im asking myself , is she cheating again. :029:
But to answer your question, having always seen the best in people (maybe im very naive) i'd probably not bring it up in conversation with her about cheating but trusting her again would be a long process and she would have to win that trust.
DBS - thats where i would like to think she'l have learnt from her mistake of going to a "better offer"
KB - If i was 100% wanting back with her your right i would'nt be asking advice, i'd be doing it... but heart says one thing, head is being arrogant and sees getting back with her as a challenge. :029:
Its going to take a lot of weighing up the pros and cons i think , but all advice has been/is much appreciated :022:
The striking issue i have, is do i want to risk getting hurt again but then thats the same stepping into any relationship, but if i was to be fecked about again would i rather it happend with someone whos done it before or someone i have to completley go through the process of getting together with someone new, make plans with, go through good and bad times with, just to be hit for 6 by the same hurt in somebody else i've put faith in.