i know its a long shot but have you ever considered a career in the Territotial Army?
They are totally flexible regarding Work, Family things like that. The only conditions are that you are 17-32/ no criminal record and have decent fitness.
There is always lots of things to do with them and the benefits you can recieve from them is incredible. Not only would you get a pension, you could go abroad with them to name one of them, and if you havn't already they pay for you to sit various vehicle tests i.e Car, Lorry, Motorcycle. And the bar is cheap which is an added bonus :thumb04::D:D:D