Depends how your reading it.
No he's not a disgrace if he was getting wound up by McGarry trying to get a reaction, personally as it was McGarry I would have 2 footed him and done some serious damage, would maybe regret it later, but we all have to remember it was the referee who let the red mist come down on the day as he was unable to control the things that went against us before the Tokely incident, so in otherwords the disgrace was the referee, Tokely just IMO fell into a no-win trap.
Alternatively, yes he is a disgrace if McGarry was a hit for no reason at all non frustration involved just hit for the pure sake of it but we all know it didn't happen like that.