Thanx for all the support people. Im humbled. Id just like to clarifty tho....my ex isnt a bad mum as such. She does do fun stuff with them that i cant...like takes em to the beach......taken them abroad and stuff. But it is interspersed with behaviour i find hard to accept at times. i just wish she was more in touch with her motherly insticnt more than any of that other stuff.
I remember her saying she wasnt wanting to have the same relationship she had with their mother, but, things are fast heading that way and she cant seem to see it. I wish she would get it into her head that they only get one childhood, and that shapes em for life
But After our youngest was born...she changed beyond all recognition. I dont know what happened. She just seems to have lost interest in a lot of things. I dont understand it, as she has landed on her feet, got a rich boyfriend, who bought them a fancy house, and even a horse ffs.....all stuff she used to dream of.....and still she aint happy!
We have an older son too.....who isnt technically mine, but i been his dad since he was four...and he has sed he would much rather live with me also. Its kinda sad that the kids feel this way. Ad be over the moon if the adored their mum too, but you would have to question why, kids that hadnt seen or heard from their mum in 10 days, are in no way pleased to see her....more upset about having to leave here.
Honestly....i dont think ad stand a chance......all i can do at the end of the day, is continue what i am doing.