I think there are another 2 catagories as well.
no1 is folk who have moved into the area and want to see a game and will probably support ict most of the time but will watch county from time to time. Before anyone jumps down my throat I am aware this is not everyone who has moved here and in fact some of our staunchest (not sure if Ive spelt that right!) are new folk to the highlands/inverness.
then there is folk like me who have supported Caley, in my case, or Thistle in others since they were young, through the highland league and through the merger and ICT is still that team just in a different form.I never had a big team so Caley/ict were not my wee team they were and always will be my team.So the rivalries have been around for a long time so would perhaps go to hampden as a neutral and enjoy the day but would not actively support pur near neighbours.My life is not absorbed by hatred and as previously stated each to their own but I personally would not have gone and supported county but could have perhaps enjoyed a good day out as a neutral wantching the game.there is also a difference between banter and hatred sorted.